Elder Tyler Haslam

Elder Tyler Haslam
Elder Tyler James Haslam

Tuesday, July 31, 2018

Week 100 - Setting Righteous Goals and Fulfilling Them!

Hi Everyone!

Hope everyone is doing well! Here's a quick accounting of our week.

First off, it has been super foggy!! For almost 4 straight days we had super thick fog. It was nice weather to do missionary work in though because it was nice and cool. At this time last year it was super hot in Cole Harbour, but it's always pretty pleasant here in Saint John. It's usually around 75 degrees. Perfect weather.

Anyways, weather aside, it was a pretty good week in other ways as well, even though most of our investigators have been sick or tied up with other stuff lately, so we haven't been able to meet with all of them.

Our Chinese investigator, Yaohui, is doing great! He even got work off so he can come to church this upcoming Sunday. He also came to the YSA activity this week and had a good time. We played this intense board game, and he destroyed all of us at it haha. He also brought one of his friends named Lee to the activity. Lee has sat in on a couple of our lessons, so we're hoping we can start teaching him as well.

We also knocked into someone named Beverley this week. She's really cool! She said she's been praying for spiritual guidance lately because she's been feeling a bit uneasy at her church. She thinks we might be an answer to her prayers. The sad part though is that she can't meet until after August 13th because she's going on vacation. I might be able to teach her during my last days in the field though!

This week during district meeting I was asked to give a training on goals. It was most likely the last training I'll give in a missionary meeting, which seems really weird. But, I really learned a lot as I prepared it. I read a talk given by Elder Marvin K. Ashton called, "The Word is 'Commitment'". In it there was a quote that stood out to me. He said, "True happiness is not made in getting something. True happiness is becoming something. This can be done by being committed to lofty goals.... To reap the full benefits of life, we must fill our days with commitment to worthy goals and principles. There is no other way." I loved that. 

A practical application of the doctrine of Jesus Christ in our lives can be making, and being committed to, worthy spiritual goals. Examples may be attending the temple each week, reading the Book of Mormon for 30 minutes everyday, gaining a greater understanding of a certain Christ-like attribute we want to develop, resisting and avoiding a specific temptation we struggle with, or maintaining weekly contact with those we are assigned to minister to. The list goes on and on! Elder Ashton also said, "The journey of success," and I may add, exaltation, "is long and is dotted with a series of commitments to worthy goals."

I challenge all of us to set some worthy gospel goals. I also challenge us to actually be invested in those goals we set. Doing so will bring the power of Jesus Christ into our lives, and we will all become the disciples we want to and should be.

Love you all!! Have an awesome week!

Elder Haslam 




Tuesday, July 24, 2018

Week 99 - "I'm Really Enjoying These Last Few Weeks"

Bonjour Everyone!

This past week has been pretty weird! It was so strange seeing Elder Ipson and his group go home! It feels like I hardly know anyone in the mission anymore! It's also weird to think that we're the oldest group of missionaries left... I don't feel like I'm that old haha.

As far as investigators go, we've had to take Kelsey off date for the time being. She's had to move out of her parents' house, and that's made meeting with her difficult lately. She'll be baptized eventually, but she's just got to get some things worked out in her life! 

We taught Yaohui the plan of salvation this past week, and he came to our Book of Mormon study class! He really enjoys learning. He's pretty smart too! He's working on getting Sundays off in August so he can start coming to church. He's such a cool guy! 

Hey, so another cool thing...a family in our ward has brought a friend to church the past few weeks. We're having dinner at the members' home tonight and he's coming over! Hopefully we can start teaching him! His name is Mike, and he's an awesome dude. We're super excited for that!

This past week has been a blast! We've been having so much fun together!! We just laugh all day long. Elder Ablett's British accent just cracks me up! I'm a blessed man having him for one of my final companions. Anyway, life's great right now, and I'm really enjoying these last few weeks.

Hope you all had a great week too! Thanks for your continued love and support!

Elder Haslam

P.S. Crazy to see all my buddies getting home! Seems unreal!



Wednesday, July 18, 2018

Week 98 - Staying in Saint John, New Brunswick, CA

Hi Everyone!

Well, I found out what I'm doing for my last 4 weeks. I'm staying in Saint John with the same companions!! And I couldn't be more happy! It'll be a good way to finish out.

As far as investigators are going, Kelsey's doing well. She's looking for a new place to live closer to town (currently she lives 30 min away). We've had to move her baptismal date back to Aug. 4th, but she's actively working towards that date and she's successfully given up coffee, which is a big deal.

Yaohui, the investigator from China our mission president found, is awesome! He just soaks up everything we teach him. I think he gets the doctrine of Christ better than I do, and he's only been a Christian for a year. He's unable to go to church until next month though because of work and  he's moving to Fredericton in September, so we think it might be best for him to get baptized there since that's where he plans on living long term.

This week in my studies I came across an article by President Oaks called, "Why do we do missionary work?" In it there was a quote that stood out to me. He said:

"We do not preach and teach in order to 'bring people into the Church' or to increase the membership of the Church. We do not preach and teach just to persuade people to live better lives. We honor and appreciate the many ministers and others who are involved in the kind of ministry that makes bad men good and good men better. That is important, but we offer something more. One can qualify for the terrestrial kingdom instead of the telestial kingdom without the aid of this Church. We are concerned with a higher destination."

I loved this because it helped me understand that the work I've been doing for nearly 23 months is so much more eternal than it is temporal. This quote helped me see the bigger picture for doing missionary work. The importance of the gospel goes way beyond this life. If we can maintain that perspective with our missionary work as members and full time missionaries, I think we'll all find an increased urgency and an enhanced desire to help souls come unto Christ.

I'm so incredibly blessed that I'm able to do what I do each day. I'm so very grateful for the time I've spent on my mission so far and I'm also very grateful for the precious days I have left.

Love you all! Have a great week.

Elder Haslam

A waterfall we walked by while knocking 


Tuesday, July 10, 2018

Week 97 - Went to America - Happy 4th of July!

Hi Everyone!

Things are going well in Saint John!

One of the highlights of the week was that I got to go to America on it's birthday! We did a booth in Eastport, Maine with our whole district! It was hot. (Yes, mom, I got a bad sunburn.) We had our booth set up right next to the ocean, so the sea breeze made the heat bearable. I took some money out of an ATM, so I could buy some food. I had forgotten what American money looks like! So when I pulled it out, I was in awe. It felt fitting to take a picture with it.

Our investigator Kelsey is doing well. She is getting over her sickness. We've taught her a couple times over Skype, and she's still working towards her date. We'll see if she makes it. We're sure hoping and praying she does. She's still got a few concerns, but none of them are too big.

Cool story of the week: Our mission president passed through our area last week to interview us. He and Sister Low stopped to get some lunch, and they talked to this Chinese man about the gospel at the restaurant. They got his phone number, and now we've started teaching him!! His name is Yaohui, and he's been in Canada for two years studying chemical engineering at the university here. He's just starting to learn about Christianity, and he's excited to read the Book of Mormon. President Low is getting work done already!!!

It was a good week!! Hope that was a sufficient update. As usual for P-days, we're in a bit of a rush today. Seems P-days are the most stressful day of the week.  

Anyway, love you guys! Hope everyone has a great week!!!

Elder Haslam 








Tuesday, July 3, 2018

Week 96 - Christ's Atonement is Very Real!

Hello People!!

I'm pressed for time because we have interviews today with our new mission president!! I'm excited to meet him. I'm sure we'll be excellent buddies after the 1.5 months I get to serve with him.

Our on-date investigator, Kelsey, is doing great. Well, health wise she's not doing great. She's been in and out of the hospital because of problems she's having with her throat. She's contagious, so we've been teaching her over Skype and it's going well. We taught her the Word of Wisdom this week and she accepted to live it. She says it will be really hard for her to give up her coffee, but she committed to give it up still. I'm excited to see her get baptized in a few weeks!!

Last week we went to this cool place called St. Martins where you can walk on the ocean floor when the tides are out in the Bay of Fundy. We found this little cove that we had to repel into with a rope, and we chilled there for a few hours and played spike ball. It was a TON of fun!! 

I'm loving life and I'm loving my companions. This has been one of my favorite transfers so far. I can't believe how fast time's going. It's been CRAZY seeing some of my friends start coming home. 

I'm grateful I get to do the Lord's work, and I'm even more grateful for the blessings I've received from my service. I know God is real. I also know that Christ's Atonement is very real. I think that's the greatest knowledge I've gained from my mission.

Hope you all have a great week!

Elder Haslam


P.S. I HATE THE GOLDEN STATE WARRIORS.